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It's Not Just About The Ring, It's About Commitment

The truth be told, some singles don't have an idea of the commitment involved in the married life. All they are really interested in is the change of status from being single to being married.
 
 
Many others are interested in the beauty of the wedding day and not the marriage journey.
 
There is a commitment that goes with the married life that requires a lot of preparations.
 
The marriage journey is a spiritual, physical and emotional aspect that must all be kept running.
 
Some just want the ring not the commitment of being a wife. Some guys just want the ring and not the commitment of being a husband.
 
Being a husband means the commitment of discipline, responsibility and maturity.
 
You cannot be married and still want to live like a bachelor. There are people don't want to be accountable in any way. All they desire is a lady to keep a house for them and be their sexual partner.
 
Being a husband means taking over responsibility and oversight of lady. You become her father, her covering, her leader, coach, pastor, lover and confidant.
 
It means you give her direction and provide her with needed leadership. You train, correct and instruct in love of cause. You are always around and available. Be committed with your finances. Money is what runs the home, so you must be ready to drop of your substance.
 
It means taking decisions that will take the family forward and lead them to prosperity. It means leading your family into God's presence. Charting a course for the family to journey on.
 
Being a husband means having a vision for your family. Maintaining discipline, correction and order for your family. It means being able to stabilize your family emotionally and psychologically.
 
Being a husband is also about not finding solace outside your home. It's about not running to your parents for comfort and counsel every time. It is about not putting your friends and work above your family. Marriage is 100% commitment all the way, all the day till death do you part.
 
For the lady, marriage means dedication, day in day out. The repeated routine and discipline of following a man's decision. It means sticking with his plans. Allowing your husband take the drivers seat while you support and ensure the comfort of the family. Being a wife means loving your husband when you don't feel like but you must because you are committed to him.
 
It means restraining yourself from the temptation of withdrawing your support when you feel like retaliating a wrong done to you. Being a wife means saying 'Yes', when the yes means a lot of sacrifice and inconvenience for you. Being a wife means trusting God to take care of you and meet your needs when you have poured out your energy and finances to making the family comfortable.
 
Being a wife means giving away your personal interest some of the time. Sacrificing your own personal pleasures, ideas and relationship for the higher calling of being an help meet. It means not focusing on such things as 'my money', 'my parents', 'my friends, 'my vacation', to our money, our parents, our friends and our vacation.
 
Now is the time to begin to ask yourself and begin to make necessary preparation because it's not just about the wedding ring, it's about commitment.
 
God bless you

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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I will be committed 

PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, tach me what commitment is  



THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Gen 2:24 (KJV)  
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Sophia Okunowo

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