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Ladies and Gentle Women, Receive Sense Now!

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This morning, I want to write to all ladies in the house and to all the men in their lives. From the wealth of experiences gathered during counseling times, there are things I would do and things I would never do if I were a lady.

Come to think of it, the lady seems to always be the one on the receiving end and the one that ‘suffers” and bares the consequences of unwise actions.
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Think about it:
When a relationship breaks or doesn't work out, who gets hurt the most?
The guy or the lady?
When there is a disappointment concerning wedding, who cries endlessly for days?
The guy or the lady?
When there is pre-marital sex, who is afraid of getting pregnant?
The guy or the lady?
When pregnancy is anticipated, who starts drowning pills like a fowl?
The guy or the lady?
Who goes for all kinds of tests in the hospital?
The guy or the lady?
Who goes through the pain of abortion in the event of that?
The guy or the lady?
Who goes through the psychological trauma of murdering a life the most?
The guy or the lady?
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Who combines the psychological trauma with emotional pain and then with physical discomfort?
The guy or the lady?
If there were complications in the abortion process, whose body is affected?
The guy or the lady?
If complication arises and life is threatened, who loses her life?
The guy or the lady?
If the womb is affected, who won’t be able to conceive eventually?
The guy or the lady?
If the decision is to have the baby, whose tummy protrudes?
The guy or the lady?
Who goes through the seemingly stigma or carrying an unwanted pregnancy?
The guy or the lady?
Who goes through all the morning sickness?
The guy or the lady?
Whose body adjusts to the different trimesters with accompanying inconveniences?
The guy or the lady?
Who goes through labour pain, in that moment when a lady goes though enough pain that would drown any man and make a grown up man cry like a baby?
The guy or the lady?
Hours or days before childbirth, who goes through the cramping, the tightening, the pounding, the stabbing, the back pain, the waves, the pressure, the pushing and the exhaustion?
The guy or the lady?
Who becomes a “single mother?”
The guy or the lady?
Who does the breast-feeding afterwards?
The guy or the lady?
I can go on and on….but wait a moment..
Who ought to be wiser? The guy or the lady?
But really, who seems to be unwise? The guy or the lady?
The answer to all of theses seems to be The lady!
If I were a single lady,
1. I will not indulge in pre-marital sex. If you can not wait for me, then you can be on your way.
2. I will not use my body to prove any love, because pre-marital sex does not prove any love. If it does, then every prostitute ought to fall ion love with their clients
3. I will not be used as a toy. I am not created to satisfy a man’s lust
4. Any man that cannot wait till marriage is not worth it. If any guy wants to go, I will let him go, maybe his name is Abedne-go!
5. I will be secure in God. It might look like it is taking long, but God will surely do it.
6. I will serve God in my generation. I will pay the price for greatness.
7. I will stay out of every compromise. If I am doing anything wrong now, I will make all things right. I will move out of his house if I am not yet married. I will not go and spend any weekend again. I am not a dry-cleaner or house help.
8. I will not run after any man. I am to be wooed, pursued and valued. Not the other way around.
9. I will focus on God as my Jehovah Jireh, not on some money bag who wants to destroy my life.
10. I will wait for the salvation of God. I will not be ahead of God.
Never do it your own way, Do it God's way! Selah!
I am God's child. God loves me


Lord, give me the strength to make all things right according to your word.


"And this is how we may discern [ daily, by experience ] that we are coming to know Him [ to perceive, recognize, understand, and become better acquainted with Him ]: if we keep (bear in mind, observe, practice) His teachings (precepts, commandments)." (1Jn 2:3, AMP)
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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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