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Ladies, That Nonsense Must Stop!

Tina decided to visit her friend Tobi. She was 'bored' and needed someone to talk to. On getting there, she met her friend cooking lunch.
Tina: thank God I even came at the right time
Tobi: Abeg the food is not yours jare
Tina: you want to eat all these alone? Haba... Diaris God o!
Tobi: Look, it is for my boyfriend Emmanuel. I am taking it over to his house. He would have had a long day and I want to surprise him.
Tina: wait o...did he give you money to cook all these? By the way I don't understand what you mean by 'surprise him' because you do this almost everyday.
Tobi: So? It is none of your business. He didn't give me money by the way, after all, love is all about sacrifice. Besides he is the one I will eventually marry.
Tina: I see... Me I don't even have time for rubbish. I haven't even cooked my own food, talk more of cooking for somebody. My boyfriend Allen takes me to eat out all the time o. After all, he has the money and I cannot come and kill myself!
Who would you say is right? Tina or Tobi?
Proverbs 4:7 (AMP) says The beginning of Wisdom is: get Wisdom (skillful and godly Wisdom)! [For skillful and godly Wisdom is the principal thing.] And with all you have gotten, get understanding (discernment, comprehension, and interpretation).
Tobi should know that you don't secure a relationship on frivolous activities or sentiments.
Cooking for a guy 24/7 does not make you more of a 'wife!" Having a good self esteem and self image is essential for a relationship as you cannot give what you don't have.
Love that is practiced at the detriment or torment of the other person is not love at all.
Some people fall in love and lose their sense of dignity. Others fall in love and cannot even read their books again all because this other person now means more.
Some other group of people, which I consider the worst and need help urgently, are those who fall in love and lose their relationship with God!
James 1:17 (AMP) says
Every good gift and every perfect (free, large, full) gift is from above; it comes down from the Father of all [that gives] light, in [the shining of] Whom there can be no variation [rising or setting] or shadow cast by His turning [as in an eclipse].
Tina on the other hand should know that a lady is first a wife before she is found. Relationship and marriage is work.
Anything you see coming out good is because someone or some people worked or are working at it. Even God had to work on the universe... He didn't just wish it to reality. He spoke it to reality!
So as a lady, saying you cannot cook, save, carry baby, cope with family members and so on is not excusable. To maintain a home, a family, children and even your business, requires efforts. Even our relationship with God requires work.
Any relationship that does not add value to you or that you don't contribute meaningfully to is not God's best for you.
Faith without works is dead, says the Bible. Some ladies can 'kabash' till heaven falls yet cannot accommodate another human being.
That God has said he/she is the one does not mean He will come down to work the relationship for you. That it is God's will does not mean we should not have common sense and learn basic rudiments of kingdom minded relationships and marriages.
That you saw 99 visions about him/her does not guarantee that the relationship will lead to marriage. You prayerfully work at it, develop yourself and be skillful. Be the person you want to marry!
We will talk to the guys next time. We are helped of God.
I have Holy Ghost sense!
I will not love amiss. I am led by the Spirit of God.
can you boldly say that your relationship or the one you hope to have one day is adding to you or removing from you?
I will not allow any relationship to drain me of substance.
James 1

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Jesupelumi Olley

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