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Love Languages For Couples

According to Gary Chapman, there are five love languages for men and women. One of the greatest thing you can do is to learn and speak the love language of your spouse. For example, if you travel somewhere, for you to be able to make any meaningful contact and establish a relationship, you have to learn to communicate by speaking their language or at the most get an interpreter.
 
 
In marriage, if you are not speaking each other ’s language, there will be serious issue. It is not about doing what you feel convenient or what you think is good, it is about doing what he or she sees as love! What are those five love languages?
 
1. Acts of service
She only feels loved when you help her out to do whatever she is doing. That is the language she understands and you have to speak that language before she feels loved. She would feel so loved when you help her out in the kitchen! Your utmost responsibility is to find out what her love language is and speak that language.
 
2. Words of affirmation
Here, her love language is choice, positive words. In other for her to feel loved, you have to deliberately choose positive, affirmative words and use them on her. One of the greatest mistakes any man can make is to use careless, negative and hurting words for a lady whose love language is words of affirmation. You will lose her completely.
 
3. Gifts
There are also ladies whose love language is Gifts. Love is spelt G-I-F-T-S for them. Until you buy something regularly, you are just wasting time! Incidentally, it doesn’t have to be expensive, but it must be consistent. She is not being materialistic, she is not a gold digger, and she is not covetous, that is simply her love language! How do you know she is not being greedy? She will not insist on expensive things till you break the bank, she would be as happy when you buy her a single chocolate as when you buy her a dress. To her, it is not about the gift itself, it is the gesture!
 
4. Quality time
Then, there are some ladies whose love language is quality time. Do all you can do, but she won’t feel loved until you spend time with her. You can buy her all the world, but she prizes time spent together more than all of those!
 
5. Physical touch
The language should be well expressed and spoken within marriage context.
 
Your assignment this week is therefore to take an excursion into her mind. What exactly is her love language? When you discover it and you speak it, it would be like magic. That love language is her password. It is what will easily elicit a smile even when she seems down! What is your loved one’s love language?

CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I have God's wisdom to understand my loved one
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, teach me by your Spirit
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

"Doth not wisdom cry? and understanding put forth her voice?" (Pro 8:1, KJV)
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Pray in the spirit
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR
1 Kings 10-11; 2 Chronicles 9

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