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Overcoming The Spirit Of Fear In Relationships

Sade and George are in courtship looking forward to marriage. But Sade is full of fears and questions. Will I be able to give birth? Is marriage meant for me? Will we be rich or will we wallow in abject poverty? What will the future look like? Will I live long? Her questions are endless and unending, fueled by constant fear.
Fear is never fair. It is more than a feeling, it is a demonic grip. That is why there are thousands of different fears, innumerable number of phobias that the devil uses to hold men to ransom.
Fear is a bondage and some people are actually bound all their life time in this weapon that the devil often wields, especially the fear of death.

"And also that He might deliver and completely set free all those who through the [ haunting ] fear of death were held in bondage throughout the whole course of their lives." (Heb 2:15, AMP)
The above scripture says as a child of God you have been delivered and COMPLETELY set freed!

In relationship and marriage several fears come through the devil into our minds.
Never entertain them!
You see, the devil cannot impose anything on you unless you permit him by embracing fear through the fearful thoughts he suggest into your mind.
He comes around and tells you that you will never get married.You look at yourself at over thirty years of age, and then you believe the fear. The moment you believe that fear and embrace it, then it actually becomes your experience!
What are you supposed to do?
You are supposed to reject it and refuse it!
Refuse to be entangled! Take a look at the scripture here:
"IN [ this ] freedom Christ has made us free [ and completely liberated us ]; stand fast then, and do not be hampered and held ensnared and submit again to a yoke of slavery [ which you have once put off ]." (Gal 5:1, AMP)
In practical terms, you refuse his fears by confessing what God says! That is why your inner man must be filled with God’s word constantly. The word of God that you read daily is not for fun, rather it will infuse strength into you such that when the devil ones with his attacks, God’s word and Spirit will raise a standard against it.

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As a single guy, I was harassed daily with the fear that I would never be able to father children.
Thank God for the little I knew then. I ran into God’s word and searched what God said about childbirth. That is how to deal with fear!
The devil said something about fear. But what did God say? Whose reports will you believe?
So I saw a scripture and I wrote it out and I kept saying that, it must have been million of times.
"Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table." (Psa 128:3, KJV)
I said it so much until the fear was rendered null and void and I knew I would have children. I told my fiancee, then to keep confessing it without telling her why.
That is what God’s word does. It would fill you with hope and faith and when the devil comes with his fear, you will just laugh at his face!
God’s word works!
After wedding the first pregnancy we had actually went down in miscarriage and that fear returned. The devil told me, you see, it didn't work! You are infertile and your wife is barren!
But I stood my ground! I went back into God’s word. I saw there that none shall be barren.
"there won't be any miscarriages nor barren women in your land. I'll make sure you live full and complete lives." (Exo 23:26, MSG)
All the while, I never told my wife about the fear I had and constant fearful dreams about not having children. That fear persisted in my head, but I did not allow it to enter my heart.
Since it wasn’t in my heart, it couldn't come out of my mouth, for out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
I refuse to verbalise it. When you say something out, you empower that fear. Rather than speak the fear, speak the word.
I simply went back into God’s word. That word never fails. And it didn't fail us. Today, we have three, and we could have had more if we wanted.
Whatever fear you have can be dealt with this way, God’s word in your heart and in your mouth! It works.
This morning, I curse the spirit of fear in your life! I proclaim you free in Jesus name from every weapon of the evil one. God’s word over your life will stand and you will have the victory in Jesus name.

God has not given me the spirit of fear. I refuse to be fearful.
Lord, strengthen my heart

"But the angel assured her, "Mary, you have nothing to fear. God has a surprise for you:" (Luk 1:30, MSG)

Get God's word that deal with any fear and keep confessing it
Ecclesiastes 1-6

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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