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Six Signs That Your Lover Might Dump You - Part 2

Continued from yesterday
4. No authority figures are involved
You can be very sure he will not marry you eventually if he avoids any authority figures in your plans.
“Don’t let’s talk to our parents now.”
“I don’t want pastors to know for now.”

“Let’s keep this between the two of us only.”
A relationship like this that is isolated and exists only between the two of you is the easiest to end. 

No witnesses, hence no accountability. Nobody to report to, hence nobody to support or sympathize with you.
5. You keep discovering unfaithfulness and he keeps begging
You have discovered more than once that he is cheating on you. He keeps begging you that he won’t do it again. But you keep discovering from time to time.
He turns you into a romantic beggar. Always begging him!
The question is what are you doing with such a person? It is just a matter of time. If somebody is committed to you, he will focus on you.
Let’s even assume he gets married to you. He has been trained to be unfaithful, so you will need to live with that.
And then when you catch him again after marriage, he drops the bomb,
“But you know me before you got married to me! These girls are always disturbing me, what do you want me to do?”
He just told you that you will have to live with it.
6. One more sign is that he will not keep in touch with you
You see, when you are in love with a person, you want to stay in touch.
Ever seen a guy who is really in love and he is in a place where there is no network? He searches for network! He raises his phone in the air, climbs a tree or some tall building just to hear the voice of his beloved.
But when he has not called you in three months, forget about it and move on, he does not love you and he will not marry you.

Did you read what I wrote there? If he has not called you in months, he is not interested in you!
He keeps telling you he is so busy, and that is why he has not called in over a month! You see, he really wants you to get angry and end the whole thing, but you are still hanging in there, hoping, because you think nobody else will come.
Who told you that?
Don’t manage with a man who is irritated at your person. Don't let a man sleep with you in order to buy love. It will never work.
Rather than your thoughts of “sex offering” to cement the love, he is thinking, “This girl is loose, I can’t settle down with her. If she is born again and she can sleep with me, only God knows how many brothers she is sleeping with like that! Let me go to church and find a good girl!”
So, conclusively, and I want to say this from over twenty years of teaching and counselling singles and married, offering your body to insure a relationship will never work, because that is not the purpose for which your body was made.
In contrast, a man that really loves God will be willing to wait. Not that he would not feel like sex. I felt like it when I was courting my wife on the Campus.
But there is something called the fear of God plus the love he has for you.
These two things will make him wait, and he wouldn't want to compromise your virtue in order to satisfy his rush of adrenalin! Selah!

I am wise and I am discerning
Lord, open my eyes to see what I cannot see

" And a stranger will they not follow, but will flee from him: for they know not the voice of strangers. " (Joh 10:5, KJV)

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Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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