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Ten Things I Had to Deal with Before Saying I Do Part 4

Today, we continue in this series.  

 
9. Marriage is about 50% + 50% = 100%
 
As logical as this may look or sound, its not completely true in a godly marriage setting.
 
Marriage is not 50% each, it is 100% each.
 
Marriage is where you bring your whole, your best, not half while expecting your spouse to bring the second half. 
 
Marriage is for two whole individuals.
 
They are both whole and complete in themselves and in the Lord.
 
Where one does not necessarily depend on the other for their joy, happiness or fulfillment.
 
The wife is not deriving her esteem or identity from the husband.
 
They are only complementing each other and adding beauty to each other's life. 
 
When you enter marriage with a 50% mentality, you are saying and demanding that what you give or do is dependent on what your partner does.
 
If he is kind, you will be kind.
 
If she is submissive, you will be loving etc. 
 
A marriage that will last long and be blissful must not be built on such principle.

"Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut,

Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel,

Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end."  (1Co 13:4-7, MSG)

 
Marriage should be about purposing in your heart to be the best wife or husband in spite of your spouse.
 
You want to obey God's instruction to you as a wife or husband, not based on your spouses' action or inaction.
 
When there is this win- win attitude and an attitude of "am answerable to God in this marriage", forgiveness, love and submission becomes easy.


 
You love because God says you should not because she or he deserves it. 
 
In marriage we don't give what the other person deserves, we give what God commands and what love requires.
 
When you do this, you give God the opportunity to bless you in His own way.
 
Let me know our thoughts on this using comment forms below.
 
Tomorrow, we will conclude on this topic by God's grace!
 
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