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Ten Things I Had to Deal with Before Saying I Do Part 5

Today, we will conclude on this topic by God’s grace!
 
10. In this marriage, If you step on toes, I will crush you.
 
This is a revengeful and retaliative relationship.
 
Here, both couples behave themselves not out of love and respect but out of fear of being crushed.
 
This ideology gives room for bitterness, hurt, strife, unforgiving spirit, wrath, malice and all forms of justifiable evils.
 
Here emotional tantrums are permitted and outburst of anger allowed.
 
The man is expected to be revered or the woman will pay dearly.
 
The woman also is to be worshipped, if not she will make life miserable for the man.
 
She simply withdraws her love, agreement, cooperation and good will.
 
That looks like trouble.
 
She punishes the man by starving him sexually and he retaliate by wielding his authority as the man of the house in different ways.
 
This tit for tat game goes on and on in an unending cycle.
 
But really, who suffers in all these?
 
Both man and woman does.
 
 
A Yoruba proverb says, "When it is uneasy for the rope, it equally becomes uneasy for the bird". Another proverb says, " when the tree branch is broken, the bird has no resting place". 
 
The truth is, once the marriage is hot, it becomes unbearable for the two people in it.
 
Both suffers the consequences. The question should be, if I make this marriage work, is it for someone else's good or my own?
 
The way you lay your bed, so you lie on it.
 
If you make your bed rough, you also won't have a restful night.
 
But when you work on your marriage, you will also enjoy the dividends thereof. 
 
If you however do your best to react at every provocation and always demand that only your view point must be heard and followed, one will be in for a rough ride. May that not be your portion
 
May God help us all to imbibe godly principles that will make our marriages likethe days of heaven on earth in Jesus name, Amen.
 
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