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These Husbands Need To Repent Quickly

We started this yesterday on the topic "Are yuou a prayer point or a prayer partner?" I identified three types of husbands who need to change now. We looked at
 
 
1. The night crawler
2. The manipulator
3. The non-spiritual husband


 
We will continue from here
 
4. The wife beater


 
The wife beater is the violent husband. He is short-fused, and so gets violent at any little provocation.
 
He is impatient and believes so much in using his fist. Somewhere in is mind, he believes a good slap is more effective than a conversation.
 
He probably grew up watching his dad beat his wife!
 
His wife lives in perpetual fear, not knowing when to talk or when to shut up.
 
If he has an equally aggressive wife, their home is always in chaos, settling one quarrel after the other. After a while, the neighbors don’t bother again. It is usual ritual.
 
If he has a docile wife, he would feel he is being effective while in effect, he is losing it.
 
If he is a church goer, he blames his antics on the devil every time. Even the devil is amazed at how somebody can lie!
 
This cannot continue. God demands a change. I support God in demanding a change. That woman God gave you is to be cared for and cherished!
 
“Pastor, you don’t know my wife!”
 
“You are right. I don’t know her, but I do know the scripture! You are to love that woman!
 
Say Amen!

But to be candid, I know from counseling experiences, that some women can be so difficult, impossible, annoying, and unbending! It is very frustrating and aggravating for the man, but the maturity comes in still not lifting your hands against your wife! It's not easy, but it's possible!
 
5. The cheating husband
 
The cheating husband, for whatever reason, has been enraptured in stolen waters. He is relishing in another man’s bread, and the scripture aptly says, it is indeed sweet for a while, but in a moment and without warning, it turns into gravel in his mouth!
 
Pro 20:17 (KJV)
Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel.
 
The cheating husband will soon know that that there is a lot of shit in the cheat!
 
Adultery is the game of the foolish because of the obvious consequences involved.
 
Pro 6:32 (KJV)
But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.
 
The Message Translation says
 
Pro 6:32-33 (MSG) Adultery is a brainless act, soul-destroying, self-destructive; [33] Expect a bloody nose, a black eye, and a reputation ruined for good.
 
It is simply not worth it
 
If you are a young lady involved with a married man, please, stop it. Don’t get into the new year with that. Don’t slow yourself down. If you don’t know how to go about it, please call me and let me pray for you.
 
6. The Mummy’s boy
 
The Mummy’s boy does nothing unless he tells his mum first. This can be very annoying to the wife.
 
There is nothing wrong in having a strong tie with your mum, but it is wrong when your mum comes between you and your wife.
 
It is absolutely wrong discussing personal issues with your mum that your wife knows nothing about.
 
Mummy’s boy need to change. Your mum is another man’s wife, and you are to focus on your own wife.
 
This can be a little bit challenging if the man is the only boy raised by his mum, the tie will be strong and the dependence will be massive. But lovingly, patiently and without any rash actions, there should be a gradual disconnection, not in terms of taking care of her, but in terms of prioritizing relationships.
 
Your wife comes first. And that is the Bible truth.
 
I will stop here this morning.
 
May your marriage be blessed!
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am strong in the Lord
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, take every indecison away from my life
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Pro 6:32 (GW) Whoever commits adultery with a woman has no sense. Whoever does this destroys himself.
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

Apologise to your spouse if need be
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR 

Rev 20
 
BIBLE READING FOR THE DAY:
1 Samuel 16, Jeremiah 29:11

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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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