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Thoughts On True Love

One of the questions I asked God was that out of all the millions of guys on earth, how would I be sure of the guy that truly loves me? In my sincerity, I told God I needed Him to help me perceive who is the guy that has true love for me. God did. The rest is story today. True love found me.
 
The issue is, How do you know true love? Everyone will advice, never marry a guy or lady who does not genuinely love you. This morning, I will share with you how to know true love. You can carry out a litmus test to recognize true love. No matter how much it disguises itself, true love can be known.
 
Until you have subjected what looks like love to this test don't fall in love with him or her.
 
1. If it is true love, there will be commitment not just feelings.
 
Many are convinced but how committed are they to you?
Commitment involves sacrifice. Is he or she willing or ready to sacrifice for you? The greater the sacrifice, the more real the love. If he shows no signs of commitment, he doesn't truly love you.
 
It's not difficult to know commitment, simply check for his/her commitment in little things. How committed is he to the relationship and to your welfare as a person?
 
2. If it is true love, there will be peace
 
Peace is a sure sign God gives as His mark of approval. In true love, there is peace - nothing missing, nothing broken. Peace is the umpire that gives you the signal to go ahead.
This peace is both spiritual and natural. True love is absent where there is always turmoil, strife, quarrel and abuse. If he /she loves you he/she will seek for peace.
 
3. True love finds it easy to forgive
 
Where there is forgiveness, there is true love. True love covers multitudes of sin. The love is not genuine if he/she is always picking on every little mistake you make. True love finds it easy not only to forgive, but also to ask for forgiveness. A genuine "I am sorry" is a sign of true love. If he/she always puts you on the spot and is always critical or judgemental of you, it's not true love.
 
4. If it is true love, communication will be seamless
 
If he/she claims to love you yet has stopped calling you for three weeks now, the love is not genuine. True love enjoys talking with the one he loves. Silence and being unexcited does not show true love. True love never sees communication as a burden. When talking becomes a pleasure, the love is genuine.
 
5. True love will never demand jeru trip
 
If he/she truly loves you, he/she will not ask or demand for sex, whether it is an out right demand, subtle demand, polite or manipulative request, jeru trip outside of marriage is a sure sign the love is not true according to God's standard.
 
Some people erroneously believe jeru trip is what proves true love and seals the love. Nothing can be far from truth than this.
 
Once he asks for it, his love is not genuine.
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love and am loved with true love
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, open the eyes of my understanding to recognise true love.
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

1Pe 5:7 (KJV) Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY

I will be committed to my relationship
 
READ THROUGH THE BIBLE IN ONE YEAR 

Acts 15-16

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Pastor Sophia Okunowo

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