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Unhealthy Mindsets You Should Drop In Marriage

There are unhealthy mindsets you bring into marriage that block your ability to become a good husband and wife.
 
 
No matter how much you try, it seems impossible to live a happy married life. You have read all the books on marriage but they don't seem to be of any help.
 
You have been to counselors but they have been saying the same things, 'love your wife, submit to your husband'. You have tried but only to fall right back on your face.
 
It could be frustrating, and it has been frustrating for you to be revolving round this circle.
 
The truth is that where the thought goes, the man follows. Thoughts precedes actions, and you can never go above your thoughts.
 
Here are some unhealthy mindsets you may have been entertaining.
 
1. Marriage is just a necessary evil.
 
This mindset can never make you enjoy your marriage. If you already believe that it is a necessary evil, you come with a victim mentality. You are not prepared to confront what needs to be confronted.
 
 
2. I am very unpleasant, so I can't be a good wife or husband.
 
You may be unpleasant, maybe due to abuse from your childhood or any other reasons. And yes, our childhood experiences do affect our lives as married couples but that you cannot change is not true. You can change, be a more pleasant person to live with. Get born again and start to put your flesh under. It is only God's word that can transform anybody.
 
 
3. Maybe there is a curse in my lineage.
 
In as much as there's the possibility of a curse, what we believe is the truth of God's word. Trusting in Christ, whatever curses are broken. Stop believing a lie and making it an excuse to remain under satan's bondage. Set your self free by the truth.
 
 
4. Men will always cheat
 
This is a very wrong notion to take into marriage. Men have a high tendency to cheat but that doesn't mean your own husband is part of that statistic. If you believe so, it will happen to you. Begin to believe the best and work towards the best and you will see the best.
 
 
5. I hate marriage. Submission makes a slave of women
 
It is high time you begin to embrace marriage as God's plan and that God loves you and that He is ready and willing to protect and defend you. Marriage is God's avenue for causing love to reign in our society. Go along with God and you will not regret it.
 
You will give account of your marriage to God. You will give account of your self and your spouse to God.
 
May God help us. God bless your marriage
 
CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I let go of wrong notions about marriage
 
PRAYER FOR THE DAY
Lord, open the eyes of my understanding
 
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
Eph 1:17  
That the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give unto you the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of him:
 
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY
Begin to pray for your understanding to be enlightened
 
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