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Ways To Love Her In Practical Terms

Yesterday, I told us how loving your bae is a big deal. It is a big deal because the lady is configured to be loved, cherished, pampered, treated kindly and spoken softly to.

 
Right from childhood, you will notice how tender and soft the girl child is.
 
Not only should she be treated tenderly, she should be protected and guarded. A lady is designed to be faithful, dedicated and committed and that's one of the reasons she hurts badly when the guy cheats on her.
 
She is an emotional being, she blossoms when she is loved and cared her. If you what to enjoy the help meet assignment of your fiancée, love her unreservedly.
 
Loving her with the God kind of love is not something every guy will flow with naturally that is why you must pay attention to it and learn how best to love her.
 
Also of importance is the fact that, what a guy sees as love is totally different from what a lady sees as love.
 
The reason for this is because the lady is totally different from the guy and vice versa. The male female and temperamental differences between a guy and a lady makes the issue of loving the lady adequately a complicated thing.
 
You ask her how she is feeling, she says nothing. You leave her alone, she says you don't care about her feelings and that is why you left her.
 
The guy definitely becomes confused, he really doesn't know what to do.
 
The guy is meant to love her on her terms not on his terms.
 
Here are ten practical ways to love her
 
1. Seek to understand her person
 
You cannot love a person you don't know or understand. Love is spelt as understanding the totality of her person.
 
Her past, present, challenges, weakness, strength, temperament, struggles etc. Understanding another person is a huge task and that is why you need the Holy Spirit to teach you how to love her.
 
This is one of the reasons why falling in love with an unbeliever is a mistake, he simply cannot know or understand you talk less of adequately loving you in the real sense.
 
2. Seek healing for her past hurts
 
Some ladies are wounded and bleeding as a result of childhood abuse, rape, verbal, emotional or psychological rejection etc.
 
Whatever the situation, in loving her, you must seek to help her in her healing process. Until she is healed of her past she cannot receive or enjoy love.
 
Loving her means not using her past against her.

To be continued.

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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I love my fiancée just like Christ love the church.

PRAYER FOR THE DAY

Lord, help me and teach me how to love and understand my fiancée.



THOUGHT FOR THE DAY 

Rom 5:5 (KJV)  
And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.

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