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What Do I Do When I Keep Falling In Love With Wrong People?

There are many things you can do which include:
1. Changing the circle of your friends
2. Getting somebody well trusted to mentor you and guide you
3. Learning not to be desperate for relationships
4. Living by principles and not just feelings
5. Learning to carry authority figures along
And there are more. This morning, however, I will like to show one fundamental thing that must not be compromised. It is like the foundation of everything. Yes, there is one thing you can do and you can be sure that you have your back covered when it comes to making decisions.
Let me address the guys first. How do you avoid the wrong lady? How do you avoid the person who has sweet mouth but bile within? Here we go!
Pro 2:10,16-17 KJV
(10) When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul;
(16) To deliver thee from the strange woman, even from the stranger which flattereth with her words;
(17) Which forsaketh the guide of her youth, and forgetteth the covenant of her God.
The lady described above is not somebody you want to settle with! The problem is that the lady described above can be beautiful. She can be very alluring, with Queens English and deceptive manners.
She can be rich, well-travelled and even with some Green card! She can even be a church-goer, belong to a unit in church and very active. She can even appear so spiritual. She can have very hot legs and the kind of face that makes your blood run fast! But all that doesn’t make her the right person.
How do you identify her since she won’t write on her forehead, “I am a strange woman!”
Wisdom must enter your heart. Knowledge must be pleasant unto you soul. You should daily read and study God’s word if you want to daily avoid wrong people.
The word of God is what brings wisdom when you read and study it. There are no two ways to it! That advice sounds spiritual, right? Well, you are spirit, you have a soul and you live in a body. Your true source of strength comes from God and the method to your daily renewal and rejuvenation is constant, daily, deliberate, perpetual, reading and study of God’s word. It will practically save you from trouble. You will be able to sense a wrong person miles away. You will simply not be attracted. Sometimes you will be attracted with her body, but deep down in your spirit, you will have a strong restraint! The next thing is for you to obey what God is trying to tell you!
Again, you find the same principles here.
Pro 6:23-24 KJV
(23) For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life:
(24) To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman.
Now to the ladies. How do I know a guy is deceiving me? How do I know he only loves what I can give and not who I am? How do I know he will eventually jilt me? How do I know he will use and dump me?
Well, it is the same principle.
Pro 2:10-12 KJV
(10) When wisdom entereth into thine heart, and knowledge is pleasant unto thy soul;
(11) Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee:
(12) To deliver thee from the way of the evil man, from the man that speaketh froward things;
Look at the Message translation of verse 12 -13
Pro 2:12-13 MSG
(12) They'll keep you from making wrong turns, or following the bad directions
(13) Of those who are lost themselves and can't tell a trail from a tumbleweed,
With continuous, daily, non-stop reading and study of God’s word, you will be kept from making wrong turns, or following bad directions. That is a truthful as you read! Go after wisdom, which comes from God’s word.
To the guys and ladies, what this mean in practical terms is that you read God’s word daily before leaving your room/house in order to avoid falling into wrong hands!
Why is the word of God that powerful? Because it is powerful! For there is nothing created that was created without the word. Even the universe is held in place and regulated by the spoken word!
What if you already found yourself in the hands of a wrong person?
Don’t be scared to end wrong relationships. Relationships where jeru trip is the order of the day, relationships that are not submitted to any authority figures, relationships that are parasitic where you have turned yourself into an emotional nurse or a money supplier as the case may be! Relationships where you are being abused daily, treated like a refuse ground with no iota of respect or regard for your person. Those kinds of relationships are bondages you should be free from.
Relationships where you are already being slapped only for him to come back next day that he cannot live without you, and then the following day, another slap is earned! What are you doing in that kind of affliction? Common, you are God’s child, and your past, which God has forgiven and forgotten, should not be used by anybody to manipulate you and abuse you! Don’t let anybody turn you in a subtle way into a sex slave because he or she has your secrets.
Get out of wrong, sinful, abusive, manipulative and tearful relationships because if you don’t, you can delay what God really wants to do with your life! Selah!

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Pro 2:1-5 KJV
(1)  My son, if thou wilt receive my words, and hide my commandments with thee; (2)  So that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, and apply thine heart to understanding; (3)  Yea, if thou criest after knowledge, and liftest up thy voice for understanding; (4)  If thou seekest her as silver, and searchest for her as for hid treasures; (5)  Then shalt thou understand the fear of the LORD, and find the knowledge of God.


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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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