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When Your Lover Plays The Rejection Card And Leaves

I get the calls all the time. Mostly, it’s the ladies. And they are weeping profusely over the phone. Really hurt!

Pastor, he just left me. Pastor, he refused to pick my calls. Pastor, what can I do?
All of the time, I tell them, it is not time to cry, it is time to move on. You cry when there is a loss of a loved one. That is understandable.
But when somebody decides to leave you and move on, yes, you can cry a little, but you need to shake yourself into reality and understand that rejection is not always a disappointment, rejection can actually be a direction from God!
Love is two-way, it is mutual. But when one party decides he or she is no longer in love, don't break your neck over that!
As a child of God, if you pray a lot, and you serve God with integrity of heart, and then you fall in love with a guy who is deceiving you and who will eventually harm you one way or the other in the future, what do you think would happen?
God Himself would orchestrate a breakup, because He doesn't want any evil to befall you.
It is a reality that as humans, one can fall in love with a person that will eventually hurt you. Sometimes, you even know and you can see the signs. You can see the uncontrollable anger. You can see the unrepentant heart. You can see penchant desire for sex without any sense of guilt. You can even see that he or she is cheating on you, and yet you still hold on, believing that you will change him.
If you are a child of God and God loves you which I know He does, that kind of relationship will break up. You see, there are some relationships that break up and the next thing you should do is thanksgiving!
You should just go ahead and thank God for saving your life! There are some strange ladies out there you get involved with and after a break up, you thank your God, not getting into some pity-party!
You see, you thought you love him or her? Not really? It is because you have been embroiled with sex. You have tasted the stew before it was ready and now your tongue is burnt. When you get involved with sex, confusion enters the soul. Why is that? Because the injunctions of God has been violated.
When there is confusion in the soul, your mind becomes unclear. You continue to love the wrong person. You cannot disconnect from the one that hurt you from time to time. A soul tie has been established and illegal soulical bonding has been effected.
He or she decides to move on but you are wrecked emotionally. Months after, you couldn't pick up your life. What do you do at such instances.?
You run to God. The scripture says in Psalm 23,
He restroreth my soul...
When you go to Him, He will heal the hurt, pacify the wounds, and touch you where no hands can reach. He will put the nuts to the bolts, and then you can see clearly and then you wonder why you were loving a lair, a user, a manipulator and cheat in the first place.
So, you let go of such abusive relationships. If the wrong person doesn't go, the right will not show up.
But why would he or she just leave me like that? Am I worthless? No, you are too much for him or her. Your destiny weighs more, and only the right one can handle your glorious destiny!
If he or she decides to go, let him go! His name is Abedne-go!

Refuse to cry any longer. It is not a loss, It is an opportunity for a new beginning. Develop your relationship with God and do not rush into another relationship. Take your time, let the wounds heal, so that you don't mete out the punishment on the next person. God’s got your back.
I see a glorious future ahead of you. I see God coming into your situation and bringing help your way and that will be your portion in Jesus name!

I am not rejected, because God has not rejected me


Pray that God strengthen you to make the right decisions


Hosea 14:4
I will heal their backsliding, I will love them freely: for mine anger is turned away from him.

Forgive all that hurt you

2nd Samuel 19 - 21

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This Piece Is Authored By

Pastor Dunamis Okunowo

Dunamis & Sophia are facilitators of Kisses and Huggs Club. They are ministers, writers, conference speakers, relationship counselors and marriage...

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