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Where Is That Perfect Relationship?

“How I wish my relationship was like theirs. They are always so cool together. "It is almost as if they never quarrel" Sade said, thinking out loud.
Well, aren’t we all familiar with the thoughts of Sade? Don’t we all, once in a while, think about things like that and feel that maybe we wouldn’t have relationship problems if we were with some other person.
Hmmm…. That is not quite accurate. You know why? Because the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence.
The lie of the enemy is to make you think you would have been happier if you were with someone else. The enemy makes you believe that you would have had it easier if you were engaged to someone else.
That is not true.
You are with the right person if God led you to that person.
Now, I need to clear this up.
If you are in an abusive relationship; either verbal or physical, please do not hesitate to leave the relationship because that is not God’s plan for you. God’s plan for you are good plans and lead to an expected end. We know that from Jer 29:11.
This message is for those who are in godly relationships and have to deal with issues that come up as a result of temperamental differences.
As I was saying, if you and your partner have issues yet to be resolved, or you have to go through a not-so-smooth situation, do not think that your life will be better because things aren’t going as smoothly as you expected it to go. A friend of mine says this a lot: just because it is God does not mean it is going to be easy.
Refuse to listen to the lies of the Devil. You really do not have the full details of what goes on in your friend’s relationship.
You have no clue what happens behind the scenes of seemingly perfect relationships.
And even if the grass is indeed greener on the other side of the fence, know that some hard work was put into watering the grasses to make it look amazing.
Your friend’s amazing relationship did not become amazing with no hard work involved.
Rather than listen to the lies of the enemy, work on your relationship.
Being in a relationship is hard work. Do you know how hard it is to let go of offences in relationships?
Your flesh wants to hold on, but the Holy Spirit gently lets you understand that you can’t keep hanging on to it. And then, He helps you let go.
It is not so easy. Thank God we have the Spirit of God though. But really, get to work and stop wishing you were in a relationship with someone else.
May the Lord help us all in Jesus name, Amen!
I work hard, by the help of the Spirit of God, to make my relationship better.
Holy Spirit, energize me for the work needed to make my relationship grow
There is really no perfect relationship. Think about this.
I make up my mind to put in the work needed to make my relationship better
John 8:44:
For you are the children of the devil, and you love to do the evil things he does. He was a murderer from the beginning. He has always hated the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he is consistent with his character; for he is a liar and the father of lies (NLT).

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