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The last time I check, It was "What God has joined together", NOT what law nor what custom/traditions has joined together.
So, if you are both Christians, and you believe God should be the one that set you on the journey of marriage, by blessing you through his servant at the altar, then you should wait till the Church Wedding day. Honour God with you body (the bible says). As legal has it is for you after traditional marriage, honour God till He joined you together officially in His presence. Let God be the 3rd person that formed your threefold cord, that can't be broken.
The journey is far (after marriage, and you will have all the way to yourself)... waiting for few months for Church Wedding, I don't think that can kill person lolz
Smiles... Church wedding does not necessarily means printing IVs, picking a day, calling all the ppl to come chop... no oh.
I've known several Holy Matrimony(s) done in the pastor's office. That's what i'm talkng about.
If they are not looking at the elaborated type... fine. Just like I said; honour God (with ur body) till He joined you together officially in His presence.
I can still repaste all I said earlier, here.