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I dated my fiance for 5yrs and in 2014, we had our introduction ceremony. After that, he wanted to pack my things to his house which i disagreed and that was how the trouble started in our relationship. He complained about me not visiting, not spending weekends,not washing his clothes etc. On May 1st 2015, our introduction marked a yr; when i asked him wat were our plans to move further, he insinuated that i was dating someone else and neva communicated ever since then. My parents and sisters called him to know why he left, he was just blabbing. The most annoying partof it is dat his parents/family members has not called me or my parents to talk about the matter. Now, he is gone and i still cannot forget him. Am so scared of moving on now.
Please help me out.
is in two way. i will rather say you can still go to God for direction rather than reaching conclusion that he has gone forever except that is what you are also wishing for. it could emotional imbalance thinking that afterall i have shown commitment of marrying her and she is not responding afterall he was not complaining of you not having sex with him. secondly pray against failure at the edge of breakthrough. to me i still have feeling that things can still be worked out. Thanks
I totally second Victor Olayemi's say about this..
Tis not easy, i must admit. But you need to face it, just as it is.
Firstly, if you both were meant to be, if God had ordained it to work out, and if you were aware of this approval from God, then you need to go back to God so he can fix it for you.
You have probably tried your best as a human to mend things, but all to no avail; so tell it to God, leave it for Him to fix. Only He can make every impossibilities standing between you and your marriage become possible.
But if reverse is the case, then you should start making conscious atttempts to let go of Him. Yes, we all agree that you are hurt, if you gotta cry about it, please do.. let the tears flow, you would feel better, trust me. Dont hold back the pains, feel it, admit it..tell a very close girl friend of yours that is very understanding, talk about it with her...Pray to God to heal you and take the pains away, tell him to perfect all that concerns you, maritally especially. Tell him to reveal his marital will to you. Decide to wait upon God for the best, for Blessed are those that choose to wait upon God.
If you know your worth, you shouldnt feel so bad about it..you should know that he couldnt afford your kinda person, you should know that you deserve much more, focus on that glorious wedding/blissful marriage picture you have always envisaged for yourself..speak positively to your life, keep saying to yourelf that the counsel of God concerning you shall prevail no matter what the physical circumstances may look like now, cuz God would never fail, He would surely, assuredly come through for you. Just do your bits as a God-fearing Lady would and should, then God would do the rest..I pray thee Peace in the midst of all these.