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• Akinbulu Oluwatomilola Oluwatomisin

  

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  February 28, 2016 9:53 PM CET

  I met a brother in my church and he has been so nice to me, though he proposed to me but i found out that he is a widower with 3kids. I don't think I can deal with that please I need some advise.
  
• Bimbola Olumoba

  

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  February 29, 2016 10:57 AM CET

  Proposed to you? Did you guys have proper friendship? Did he go through the proper church regulated way to ask you out? Is your pastor aware? Did you find out about his widower status and 3 kids before the proposal or after? How old are you and have you been married before? seriously,lots of questions needs to be answerd to even counsel you. I is easier for widow to marry a widower than for a single lady to marry a widower with three kids. You need to ask a lot of question if you think God is leading you the ask questions like you life depends on it....   How did the wife die?

  What killed her?

  How did he treat her when she was alive?

  and so many other questions.