March 1, 2016 10:55 PM CET
She is in USA and i'm in Nigeria, though we met here before she left for USA but I found out that the relationship is not going on well and personally I've hated long distance relationship before now and I think it's really affecting us. Please how do I cope with this?
March 5, 2016 2:22 PM CET
One question you both need to address is, do you want to marry each other? If not, that relationship is pointless. If yes, seek God's face daily to give you wisdom in dealing with whatever it is that's "affecting" this relationship. Lastly, put in a lot of work as if she's in Nigeria. Don't go a day without talking to her on the phone. Tag her on IG videos or posts you find funny, write each other letters even if you both won't get them immediately, send her surprise gifts-doesn't have to be anything expensive. If you have friends who live in the US, have them help you order dinner for her sometimes....and stay in contact constantly...it'll be all worth it.
One question you both need to address is, do you want to marry each other? If not, that relationship is pointless. If yes, seek God's face daily to give you wisdom in dealing with whatever it is that's "affecting" this relationship. Lastly, put in a lot of work as if she's in Nigeria. Don't go a day without talking to her on the phone. Tag her on IG videos or posts you find funny, write each other letters even if you both won't get them immediately, send her surprise gifts-doesn't have to be anything expensive. If you have friends who live in the US, have them help you order dinner for her sometimes....and stay in contact constantly...it'll be all worth it.