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The niceness syndrome

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    June 30, 2016 12:56 AM CEST
    From our topic yesterday. Ladies we are advised to go for the men that Loves God so that we can eat butter and honey in our relationships/ Marriages. Now most ladies would say, but he is soooo nice. Niceness or being nice, is not a fruit of the spirit. Yes he is nice, but does he fear God. Yes he is nice, but does that make him stop his unrepentant lies. Yes he is nice, but does he still insist on Jeru trap with you. Then you need to watch it ladies. What fruits does he possess? If he has the fear of God in him, then, he would manifest the fruits. See, you would only deceive yourselves if you say you didn't see these signs before you married him. Yet you still went ahead. We have to look beyond the physical into the inner man of the man. What does he have to offer, is he led by the spirit, does he Love God. That is a question that should be burning in our hearts. Galatians 6:7 says, Do not be deceived , God is not mocked. For whatsoever a man Soweth, that shall he also reap. If you sow an unrepentant liar into your life/marriage; that is what you would reap . It's as simple as that , but if you sow a Man that loves God and has his fear in him, then you would enjoy God in your marriages. ladies , let's be wise... I pray God to open the eyes of our understanding in Jesus name. amen