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What do I do?

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    September 29, 2016 6:37 AM CEST
    Please what do I do?
    We've been trusting God for the fruit of the womb for a long time now, done several tests, all shows nothing is wrong with both of us.

    I got the shock of my life yesterday, when I discovered my wife has been using birth control pills.

    I've still not recovered from the shock.
    • 35 posts
    September 29, 2016 12:44 PM CEST
    Wow! Okay that's a HUGE shock! You have every right to demand answers, to be mad, to do everything and anything to make her feel your anger and disappointment. But first, you actually have to sit her down and ask why. And wait before you react. Throw yourself at God and release your anger and frustration to Him, not your wife. As for her, I can't teach you what to do with her, but God will.
    • 194 posts
    September 30, 2016 6:32 PM CEST
    Wow! That is serious...wow. Not fair at all.

    Please, talk to her sincerely and hear what she has to say.
    From the depths of your heart, forgive her, that your prayers will not be hindered.
    God will settle you both . AMEN