November 19, 2016 10:38 PM CET
Bimpe and Toye are newly wedded, They had the normal ups and down a relationship would, but they overcame through the help of God, their love and determined commitment . Bimpe notices all of a sudden, they are always having heated arguments in the home, no breathing space at all.......This went on for a while until she stumbled on a particular verse in the word...
Proverbs 15:1King James Version (KJV)
15 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.
A soft answer turneth away wrath... both of you cannot be hot in the head at the same time, peace and serenity won't be found.....somebody has to cool off for the other.
And as the lady, you are to be submissive to your husband in Everything, even if you don't like what he is doing or saying at that particular moment.
You submit and they pray about it. You submit Prayerfully....That is Wisdom!
You see that when you do this, it creates more peace in the home , you always seek to please your husband. remember you are now 1 in marriage. If you do anything to hurt him, it comes back to you, because both of you have been joined together...so hence, you feel the burnt of everything...it come back heated to you
A soft answer, patience, submission, wisdom is needed ..even in situations when he behaves rudely, unfair, selfish etc.... A soft answer back would turn away wrath...
You see this is something you cannot do by your help, if you try by yourself, you would fail. You need the help of the Holy Spirit . Pray to God to help you in these areas, let the Holy Spirit work in you to prove what is that good, acceptable and perfect will of God for your marriage.
You should be the ideal helper for your man in all things. That suitable help meet , as God has created you to be..,
Titus 2:4-5King James Version (KJV)
4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Titus 2:4-5Amplified Bible (AMP)
4 so that they may encourage the young women to tenderly love their husbands and their children, 5 to be sensible, pure, makers of a home [where God is honored], good-natured, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.
That the Word of God will not be dishonoured...Ephesians 5:22-24
Read what the word of God says there...you should obey the word of God, so that his word is not blasphemed...
It didn't give a specified time when we are to submit and not to submit, the word says in everything. You doing that and keeping quiet, doesn't mean you are a fool as the WORLD would say... Rather, that is wisdom.
The Word of God is a lamp unto your feet, and a light to your path, it would lead and direct you safely.. I can assure you of that!
I pray God to help us all....
Remain Blessed!
Bimpe and Toye are newly wedded, They had the normal ups and down a relationship would, but they overcame through the help of God, their love and determined commitment . Bimpe notices all of a sudden, they are always having heated arguments in the home, no breathing space at all.......This went on for a while until she stumbled on a particular verse in the word...