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The Visionary Man!

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    November 30, 2016 10:13 PM CET
    The Visionary man is someone you must be readily able to adapt to because he is spontaneous and thinks far ahead.

    He is he kind of man that can just wake up and say he wants to quit his Job and go into another business, he is the type that dreams high , and want to conquer the world. He is the kind of man that believes he can do anything , he is the kind of man that is always excited about what he is doing, creating new stuffs and always enthusiastic.

    If you find out your man is like this, you should be ready to adapt to him and also be spontaneous, not trying o change him or getting frustrated. He is the type of person who can say darling, Let's empty our bank account into this business I want to start.
    The natural response is for you to refuse, get agitated, try to turn him off, if he listens to you fine, but you should let your man decide what he wants to be , while you are prayerfully following him.

    When I say prayerfully, some decisions you can see would not work, but instead of making an issue out of it, let him be, follow him and be in prayers to God about what is happening.
    God is faithful! Let the man be the head he is.

    Don't try to change him or turn him into something you want, instead you should work on your life on how best you can please your husband.

    Bible says in '
    1 Corinthians 11:8-9King James Version (KJV)

    8 For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man.

    9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.

    The man wasn't created for the woman, the man wasn't created for you, to fit you or match your agenda, but the woman was created for the man, to meet the need of the man, to please him, his life and his agenda.

    So don't try to change him into something to fit you or your needs. You should seek ways to fulfill the purpose for which you were created. You were created for the man, so you should find how to adapt to his life, and be the helper you are, not a KNIVE .

    A story was told of a chartered accountant , who didn't seem to be fulfilled at his work and told his wife, he wanted to go into farm business . The wife couldn't believe him, saying all these things they have worked on over the years. You would just give it up like that.
    Never ooo, no oo o. She got frustrated , when her husband started and making preparations into place.

    An advise for this lady, is to trace it back to the beginning . You are to be an help. The sooner you get on with this plane I your husband, the merrier and joyful your marriage would be . Because you are honouring God by Honouring your husband .

    Be spontaneous with him, help him in getting all materials needed , enjoy your husband, and make the most of your marriage worthwhile. While prayerfully supporting him.

    If you know your man is this type, please adjust appropriately to enable him get they best out of the marriage

    You should always know that in marriage , you we're created for him, to help him, and meet his needs , not the other way round.
    Seek to please your husband always....

    Remain Blessed!