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Infatuation or real love?

  • August 1, 2015 8:10 AM CEST

    How can I know the difference between infatuation and real love? I am seventeen years old. Please, enlighten me.

  • August 1, 2015 10:23 PM CEST
    Can you tell the person you think you in love with the truth if he/she is doing something wrong?

    • 60 posts
    August 5, 2015 8:52 AM CEST
    Love is forever, infatuation is temporary, this simply means, can you still feel the excitement about him/her when the looks, affluence, money, etc are all gone? Love is after values, infatuation is after things, is it his/her patience, meekness, selfless, discipline, wisdom, prudence, dignity, honesty etc or the car, house, wrist watch, clothes, how s/he smells, beauty, body shape ect that attracting you? better still love and infatuation is dealt with by 1cor 13
    This post was edited by Akaninwor Young at August 5, 2015 5:02 PM CEST
    • 212 posts
    August 5, 2015 5:00 PM CEST

    Love focus on the interior more than the exterior,infatuation focus on exterior

    Love is patient and caring while infatuation is in a haste

    love is selfless,infatuation is selfish

    love keeps your purity in check,infatuation wants sex right now

    For a 17 years old girl,i think you should face your God,find your purpose,fulfill it ,read your books and leave the boys