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My fiancé invited me to come and visit him in Port Harcourt for three days and promised and even vowed that nothing will happen. I got there there trusting him only for him to wake up in the middle of the night touching me all over.
He started begging me that it would only be once and I just couldn’t believe it. Of course I refused him because I have promised God that there would be no Jeru trap before marriage.
I left his place first thing in the morning and came back to Lagos. Now, I want to leave him and break the relationship but he is begging. Please advise.
Pastor Dunamis Okunowo said:
My fiancé invited me to come and visit him in Port Harcourt for three days and promised and even vowed that nothing will happen. I got there there trusting him only for him to wake up in the middle of the night touching me all over.
He started begging me that it would only be once and I just couldn’t believe it. Of course I refused him because I have promised God that there would be no Jeru trap before marriage.
I left his place first thing in the morning and came back to Lagos. Now, I want to leave him and break the relationship but he is begging. Please advise.
I see you are a very strong lady.That you packed your things and left the next day shows you have inner strength. I think you should give him another chance. Chances are when a man loves you he would be tempted to touch but the God in him would be the restriction,He could fall short sometimes but stand strong and stop staying in closed doors with him. It is hard for a man that is turned on to control himself.It is better he never got turned on. No course for break up,see ur mentor
you shouldnt spend the night at your fiance's place in the first place. i know i might be tempted that is why i wont even try inviting her over to stay over unless its my parent's place (or where there is supervision) and she can stay in the guest room. i agree with the previous reply, its difficult for guys when they are turned on. you can give him a second chance only this time, dont spend the night anymore at his place. you just might not get away if this happens again. this is just my point of view.